I'm coming out of my shell in a big, big way here. And, as my roommate said, it's incredible what I've already done in less than two months.
For example, I have:
But I'll get back to all of that. I just need to reaffirm all the things that are going right in my world, to remind myself that I'm doing something incredible. And I'm doing it well!
That being said, I had no idea this weekend was going to turn out the way it did. At first I was a little nervous about what my roommate had planned for her friends who came to visit this weekend -- one of which being her former roommate who only left two months before I moved in. It started out like that past week, rainy, cold and dreary. So that pretty much put a halt to any major plans.
Kathy, Nina (her friend from the Netherlands) and I were supposed to all go out to Monte-Carlo and Ventimiglia in Italy to check out the large open-air market they have. But alas, they drank too much the night before and the strikes still hadn't lifted 100 percent. So long story short, I woke up very early in the morning and had nothing to do most of the day.
Karina, my roommate, invited me to have lunch with her and her friends. At first I was hesitant and thought I'd have to leave, but then I decided, "What the heck?" I can go to Monte-Carlo anytime, it's ok if I meet up with them a little later. So I rolled up my sleeves and helped cook some pasta and on the spot created our very own, homemade sauce. I had a very good lunch because I got to see a side of my roommate that's been hidden from me. Maybe we were both just too shy and too new with each other to let those parts of our personalities out, but seeing her with her friends made me realize that she's probably not all that bad. And might I add, I've never ever relented my kindness around her, so perhaps that's finally starting to pay off.
As soon as we finished cleaning, Kathy, Nina and I all met up at the Antibes train station and headed off towards Monte-Carlo. I was only going to be there for an hour, because Karina's old roommate, Thomas, invited me out to dinner with all of them. So instead we improvised and decided to get off the train at Nice, halfway to Monte-Carlo -- especially since I was just there the weekend before with my dad. And what a fabulous idea it was! The entire city is already decked-out beyond imagination for Christmas and the light-rail tram they've been working on over the past four years -- terrible traffic when I last studied here because of all the road closures -- had its grand opening this weekend. So there were free concerts, with festive holiday-themed songs to be had. And even though I could only stay an hour and a half, it was time well-spent!
Then I rushed back home and got ready to go out to dinner. Karina told me I'd want to dress up a little bit, because she was going to present me to some "guy friends," and some of Thomas's former co-workers. And they did.
We went out to this excellent French restaurant where everyone ordered of all thing, individual pizzas
à feu bois. Delicious! Karina felt inclined to watch after me all night long, which was very nice of her considering I knew practically no one. But, the "California curiosity" eventually came out and I was the talk of the table for a short period of time. So that helps open up my shell and force me to talk more in French! And I kind of made a little dinner-time friendship with the two guys sitting near me which held up later in the evening.
After dessert and coffee, the younger ones of us decided to go off to a club. Imagine my shock when my roommate conjured up the whole thing! All the guys were really excited to go out and dance, and Karina and I were kind of apathetic to it all.
But then if you know me, you obviously know that's not true.
We got into this club -- which didn't have a cover charge for WOMEN OVER 25 AND MEN OVER 30 -- that's right Aimee, I crashed the old person's dance party so we don't need to do it in Geneva next month. And since there were so many of us and very young to boot -- maybe only two of our group of eight actually fit that age category -- we got in without a problem and went straight to a reserved table. However, that was the last I saw of the table, as Karina grabbed my hand and whisked me off to the dance floor.
At first I was kind of shy and nervous, but whenever American songs come on here, especially oldies and disco, something inside me just snaps and I go crazy dancing like no one else is around! And they loved it. They kept cheering, "
OUAIS, ELLE EST AMERICAINE!" which made me laugh and only made me want to do it more. The two guys who befriended me earlier and Karina kept egging me on all night and at one point this guy and I kind of choreographed a dance to M.J.'s "Billy Jean." Very, very fun. And her friends thought I was a riot -- which I equally thought of them.
It might have been the sangria and wine I had with dinner speaking -- promise I didn't drink a drop of alcohol at the club, which makes it all that much MORE fun -- but I started talking about how much I miss American Sunday brunches.
Tout d'un coup, Karina and our house guests were signing me up to cook it on Sunday and they started pitching in money, suggestions and food.
Basically, we finally got home at 4:30 a.m. reeking of cigarettes and sweat, looked up a bunch of recipes online and by 5 a.m. I was fast asleep. Six hours later I woke up with THE SUN!! (no rain today!) and accompanied Karina to the grocery store where we bought all the necessary items for our brunch.
This morning I made apple-cinnamon and walnut muffins, French toast (ah the irony), pancakes, fruit salad and scrambled eggs for everyone to try. It was quite a hit!
Mom, I've been getting so many compliments on my cooking here! It's kind of like in a
previous October post I had. I feel like I'm testing out someone else here in France. I wake up early, I cook, and I don't remember what else, but this person doesn't seem to be the Monique I used to know. And I kind of like this one. Needless to say, I'm pretty full now.
So not only did I have an excellent weekend, but my roommate and I are kind of starting to open up and be friends! I've been waiting for a moment like that for nearly a month and a half now! And even better, we're going to start cooking like this every Sunday. Yay brunch and baked treats!
...36 More Days Until France BANS Indoor Smoking! :)